Have you ever wondered why your woman groans in pain
during love-making, instead of enjoying every bit of the pleasurable action?
That sounds farmiliar.
If you have encountered such a bad experience, you
are not just alone, as many guys have found themselves in the terrible
circumstance.
According to the 2009 National Survey of Sexual Health
and Behavior, 30% of women reported pain during their last sexual encounter.
The
figure may be much higher if accurate data were collected.
Now that it has been established that painful sex has
become a part of many, the question is, “ is it normal for your female partner who you have planned
to enjoy the memorable muscle to muscle pleasure with, to suddenly start feeling as if her whole body has been rubbed with the Ghanaian pepper?
The answer is capital no.
Sex from
start to finish should relish the highest fantasy, bringing relaxation and
freshness to your whole system.
If intercourse suddenly starts to
hurt, it’s likely to be from physical causes, though psychology and infection can also play important parts.
Physical problem in the sense that
the two of you have not mastered the act well enough to be able to derive the
needed joy from it.
Often times, the major problem is
that the woman is frigid , implying that her vagina does not easily get wet
that it can gladly receive the long standing Adam’s snake, that is always ready
for action.
Although the vagina belongs to the
woman, the non-performance of the vital woman organ is often blamed on the man.
This is so, because , the vagina is
like a food, and in this contest, it is the man that prepares the delicacy.
The man is obliged to make it
screwable, through long romance and stimulation of the clitoris, at the centre
of the vagina.
So concentrate on plenty of fore-play and use a lubricant, such as
KY.
When the vagina is wet, it can
accept any rod that comes its way, unless when the man has an abnomally big
penis, known in local parlance as "the great python".
On average, the vagina is 3 to 4
inches deep , although some women have a vagina that is around 5 to 7
inches deep.
When a woman becomes aroused, the
vagina expands: as blood flows to the area, the cervix and uterus are pushed up
by the upper two-thirds of the vagina to create more.
So even if the man has over 5feeet
long penis that is the average, the well lubricated vagina will accommodate
it and even ask for more.
So, the proper stimulation of your
woman is needed to get her pussy wet and ready to accept your rod without any
pain.
In addition to the physical, psychological
problems and infections are also contributory factors.
In this case, you need to see your
doctor for a check-up to rule out any physical problems.
If your doctor discovers this then your
partner might also have to get checked out by his doctor.
Lastly ,as you rightly suspected, sex may be making you tense.
If so, take time to
relax before sex.
You need to sort out any relationship issues that
could be causing you to resist love-making, so sort any problems now.
Enjoy !
No comments:
Post a Comment